Welcome to my corner of the internet. A place dedicated to the joy of discovering new things, shared the way only a friend would.

Hi, I'm Nes.

The Story

As a 30+ woman living in the Netherlands, I found myself stuck in a comfortable but predictable routine.

I realized that the best recommendations—the ones that actually got me out of the house and trying something new—always came from friends, not algorithms.

Whether it was a hidden yoga studio, an unexpected weekend getaway, a life-changing book, or even just a reliable plumbing service (because let's be honest, we need those too), the word-of-mouth recommendations were always the most valuable.

The Mission

I created "Have you tried" to capture those "you have to try this" moments. It's a curated field guide to experiences, big and small.

This website is both a personal log for myself and a resource for anyone looking for friend-approved experiences. It's about stepping out of our comfort zones, supporting great local businesses, and sharing the joy of discovery.

Welcome to my corner of the internet. A place dedicated to the joy of discovering new things, shared the way only a friend would.

Hi, I'm Nes.

The Story

As a 30+ woman living in the Netherlands, I found myself stuck in a comfortable but predictable routine. I realized that the best recommendations—the ones that actually got me out of the house and trying something new—always came from friends, not algorithms.

Whether it was a hidden yoga studio, an unexpected weekend getaway, a life-changing book, or even just a reliable plumbing service (because let's be honest, we need those too), the word-of-mouth recommendations were always the most valuable.

The Mission

Cheers to trying new things.

As a 30+ woman living in the Netherlands, I found myself stuck in a comfortable but predictable routine.

I realized that the best recommendations—the ones that actually got me out of the house and trying something new—always came from friends, not algorithms.